Welcome to the BatorBrained blog! This is an outlet for my deep (and not so deep) thoughts on being a bator, the culture of the bator brotherhood, and living a life for pleasure.
Ever since I learned to masturbate, I’ve been a bator, even if I didn’t know that was a thing until about a decade ago. I was always spending hours edging, making those good feelings last longer and longer. Now I have the added joy of connecting with other like-minded people and bonding over our mutual love of self-pleasure. As I’ve become more open about my bator lifestyle with my husband, I’ve been able to go even deeper. In many ways, that’s what this blog is for.
In my normie life, I am a recovering academic, so you’ll find that this blog isn’t afraid to think beyond the surface about sex, pleasure, masturbation, and culture. As a critical scholar, my analytical brain is always wanting me to deconstruct, but often bating is a way for me to turn off my brain. That means you’ll probably see reflection, critique, and eroticism side-by-side. I still work at a university in the Midwest so my name and face won’t be on here. You can just call me Dr. Bator.
If you’d like to connect and didn’t get here from me posting this on social media, email me at admin@batorbrained.com.